tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41565681673896564812024-02-19T03:08:28.115-08:00Alexander MerlinAlexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-32253610189067650652011-11-09T16:09:00.000-08:002011-11-09T16:09:55.165-08:00November 9, 2011It is with great sorrow that I sit here and write this entry. Yesterday, Alexander began a new journey. Last week, the doctors informed us that the continued stress on his lungs has put increased pressure on his heart. Simply put, his heart had been compensating for what his lungs has been unable to do. Over the past six months, his heart has been working hard, but now the pressures on his heart had become too high. On Friday, after a long talk with the doctors, we were told that these pressures could not continue for more than a few weeks. We (his father and I) spent all weekend with him. We spend many hours holding him and smiling with him. He had a wonderful few days. Yesterday, his heart rate began to drop. He was telling us that it was his time to go. He didn't suffer. He was surrounded by many who loved him including his mom, dad, sister, grandma, grandpa, and nurses. After some time in our arms, he let us know that it was ok... and he left to begin his new journey. It all happened very quickly, and knowing that he didn't suffer is the most important thing to us all. <br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Alexander touched many lives in his six months here. He taught us more lessons than I ever knew were possible. We would never trade a moment of time that he blessed our lives with, and we will miss him terribly until we meet again. We thank you for all of the love, prayers, and support throughout this long journey. </div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGuR7FLlxp8QsP6Mv8HprwR_ON4RX8A_7ODJiwymZaTC1DnoYtILBk8uLvhyphenhyphenV6J5N-_jMT5aDLOgcY5VepB_JZkdnmjLT5RzrEBmbIIePPmZpMhTz1eCJP4Wu_tWtiEV6AEjdQFaysFFE/s1600/DSC_0437_2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="444" ida="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGuR7FLlxp8QsP6Mv8HprwR_ON4RX8A_7ODJiwymZaTC1DnoYtILBk8uLvhyphenhyphenV6J5N-_jMT5aDLOgcY5VepB_JZkdnmjLT5RzrEBmbIIePPmZpMhTz1eCJP4Wu_tWtiEV6AEjdQFaysFFE/s640/DSC_0437_2.JPG" width="640" /></a></div>Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com46tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-61848347859061282512011-10-27T15:21:00.000-07:002011-10-27T15:21:35.188-07:00October 27, 2011It has been a long couple of weeks, but the hope, love, and support that everyone has sent me is hopefully helping. The doctors have put me back on steriods, and unfortunatly, this will be a longterm journey. Nobody knows the longterm effects of this, and that scares mom and dad a lot. Hopefully, I can get down to a low enough dose, and then grow enough to be able to breath without the steroids. It took three days on a high steroid dose before some help was seen. My oxygen is now down around 40%, and hopefully Monday I will be put back onto the conventional ventilator. I have gained some weight, and now weight 7 and a half pounds! Continue to send your love... I will be needing it as my journey is still far from over. Lots of love to everyone!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Army Alexander!!! Everyone thinks I look like grandpa</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Time to start eating with a bottle again.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Long day... time to sleep.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-74180658954610477012011-09-14T18:00:00.000-07:002011-09-14T18:00:06.309-07:00September 14, 2011Good Evening everyone. The past week I have spent many hours recovering from my tracheostomy surgery. The surgery went well. Overall it took about 50 minutes and my mom and dad waited for me the whole time outside the NICU. Once it was over they were able to come see me, however, I was pretty sleepy on the medicines. Every since I have not done much but lay still in the bed. The doctor does not want me moving a lot as the trach heals. I am starting to get a little restless though, and hopefully I will be allowed more freedom soon. Tomorrow the surgeon will come back to do the first trach change with my mom and dad there. I still have to get the vent settings down more before I can come home so we are still looking at several weeks at least. Mom is hoping that I can be home for the holiday season. Mom and dad will also have to learn how to take care of me and all my trach equipment. They will spend at least 24 hours with me in the hospital before I am discharged. So... my journey continues... my face is clear at least! I will post pictures next time! Since I am not moving a lot, there are not many new pictures yet... but I know that there will be soon. Thank you for helping me to pull through... though I have a long way still to travel... your love and prayers have helped my family and I so much over the past few weeks!!!Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-59566475737347485842011-09-08T17:09:00.000-07:002011-09-08T19:23:43.113-07:00September 8, 2011The past four and a half months have been the most difficult time of our lives. Not many people experience having a baby the way that we have. Since Alexander was born so early, I never really experienced the kicking while he was growing inside me. I have not been able to experience breastfeeding, and still have not slept in the same building as my beautiful baby boy. I always imagined that I would have my baby, and a few days later we would be home.. snuggling in bed and watching him grow. I listen to others talk about how they don't get enough sleep because they are up with their babies. I wish I could say I have had that experience. I don't get enough sleep because I am always worried about my baby. I can't get up in the night and look over to see him sleeping, or even crying. In the past four months my baby has had to fight death twice. However, my baby is a warrior. He is the strongest human being I have ever met, and he has turned death away. Last week, the doctor came into the NICU and told my husband and I that he didn't expect to see Alexander that morning. This is the same doctor who was there the weekend Alexander was born and told us that he didn't think he was going to make it then either. We called on the prayers, love, and support of everyone we know to help us through this amazing difficult time. My family dropped everything in their lives to travel the many hours and be with us and Alexander. To let him know that he is loved and needed in this world. He heard everyones prayers, and he fought his toughest battle... and has been stablized. After facing the possibility of him dying not once, but twice, we have come to a difficult decision. Tomorrow Alexander will get a tracheostomy. This is not what we wanted for our little boy. It is not what any parent wants, however, everyone says it is the best thing for him. The trach will be in place for as long as needed... but we are looking at about two years. The good thing is that he will be able to come home on a vent. The doctor told us today that we still will not hear him cry for a while though, not until he grows more and becomes less dependent on the trach tube for breathing. He is now five and a half pounds, and it breaks my heart to watch him grow in a hospital. It becomes harder each day to leave him and know that I will not come home to him at night. 133 days in the NICU and still counting... and it is exhausting. So we now start our next journey... one that hopefully will bring our baby home so that he can grow surrounded by love of family, and not the sounds of hospital machines, the frequent blood checks and foot pricks. Please continue to pray for and send positive thoughts to Alexander. His war is far from over and I am sure that all the thoughts is what allowed him to defeat death last week. Thank you... from the bottom of my heart for all of it. A special thank you to my family for reminding me the importance of family... and the Kristin (once a mother) for being there for me when I needed someone to understand.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Alexander Merlin. Sunday September 4, 2011.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Alexander two weeks ago... during a tube change with nothing on his face.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A visit from family and love from his Aunt and Uncle. </td></tr>
</tbody></table>Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-55421086392771854872011-09-04T10:29:00.000-07:002011-09-04T10:29:58.693-07:00September 4, 2011Thank you for all the prayers and positive vibes that have been coming my way. The past five days have been rough, but, I am still fighting. One of the lung cultures came back positive, so hopefully the round of antibiotics will help. We have slowly been able to come down on the oxygen, but it has been a slow course. Today, my tummy isn't feeling too good. The x-ray shows that there appears to be some air in it, and I am having a hard time getting comfortable. Overall, I am doing a little better... but still have a long journey ahead of me. On Thursday, my sister was able to come into the NICU and meet me for the first time. It was nice to know that everyone is pulling for me. Keep the prayers and love coming... thank you so much!!! <br />
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After the hurricane, many trees were knocked down. A huge tree fell across the road right in front of my parents house... but mom says that she went outside to check on my tree (the baby maple tree planted for me as a gift from Betty and Tom) and that baby tree looks great. It must be a sign that things are going to be ok!Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-23613548846386109032011-08-23T10:49:00.000-07:002011-08-23T10:49:06.771-07:00August 23, 2011As the summer comes to an end... I have to say thank you to some amazing people. The Praxair Cancer Center ladies are more amazing than I could imagine! Last week, they held a "grandma" shower for my grandma! I am sure she was very suprised, but she has told me that there are beautiful gifts and thoughts waiting for me in Connecticut. Thank you so much for thinking of me so often and helping me to make it through the first months of my life!!! You are amazing ladies whom I can not wait to have the honor of meeting!<br />
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</tbody></table> Good Evening to everyone and I hope that you are all having a good holiday weekend. Things in the nicu are slowly progressing and I am doing well! I am not 35 centimeters long and weigh 1240 grams (2 pounds 11.8 ounces). As I grow, it is becoming clear that I am getting stronger. I had my eyes checked again of Friday, and was diagnosed with stage three ROP (Retinopothy of prematurity). This required some immediate attention, as if it is not treated, there is a chance I could go blind. So... the specialist came to give a second opinion on Saturday and agreed that something needed to be done. Mom and dad agreed to allow the doctor to put a shot in my eyes in hopes that this will stop the ROP. The specialist will return on Wednesday to follow up, so hopefully there will be some good news to report. Otherwise, I am able to be held everyday now, assuming that I am having a good day. I am continuing to be dressed daily and am maintaining my body temperature well. All in all, I am doing well! Still sleeping and growing as I need to be. Enjoy your holiday!<br />
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</tbody></table> My CPAP settings went down some more today and there is some new good news also! I am now 1110 grams (2 pounds 7.5 ounces) and I started wearing clothes for the first time today! My mom had to go home and wash some of my little onsies so that I could have them in the nicu with me. Tomorrow I am also going to be moved from the isolation room into the main room, right by the nurses station. Since I am older and more stable, I have been much more curious. I am spending more time awake and looking around, so... the nurses think it is time for me to interact with everyone else! Such exciting things are happening.Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-86666908702783769482011-06-26T13:05:00.000-07:002011-06-26T13:05:56.175-07:00June 26, 2011 - Looking back over our journeyAlexander is doing very well. He is breathing a little bit better, and growing. He is now 1045 grams and will be weighed every couple days. He also is getting baths more often since he is stable enough to be removed from his isolate more. <br />
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</tbody></table> <div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As I sit here and write that yet again everything in the nicu is going well, I realize that I have been thinking a lot about the past two months. Just over two months ago I went to the doctor for what I thought would be a routine checkup. We even brought my step-daughter so that she could see the ultrasound for the first time. That day is one that I will not soon forget. As I sat in the doctors office with my husband and step-daughter, the doctor began to ask me questions that I just knew couldn't mean anything good. He asked about my job, and how a typical day went. I answered and then watched him leave the room for a while. As my family and I sat there, my husband told me that I would not be going to work on Monday. He was right... but little did I know what our lives were going to become. </div> <div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I was only 24 weeks a 4 days pregnant. I knew that nothing good could come out of problems this early with my pregnancy. We didn't have a name for our son, his soon to be room was full of stuff as the house is being rennovated. We didn't have a crib, a car seat, or even clothes. We were just not ready. When the doctor came back, he told me that he was going to admit me to the hospital, and that he wanted to get some more tests. The next few hours consisted of blood work and many people in and out, the whole time I didn't really understand what was going on. I knew I just wanted to go home. The next day, the doctor told us that I wouldn't be going home until I delivered my baby. I calmly told them that wouldn't be until August, and their response was that I was wrong. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">For eight days I stayed in the hospital... trying my hardest to believe that everything was going to be ok. The nicu doctor came in and told us that if my baby was born then, there would be about a 60% survival rate. He said some more things, but all of that is still a blur in my mind. Finally, the doctors decided that my body and my babies would not survive if they didn't deliver. I had two hours notice that I would be having a c-section. I remember the few calls I made in those two hours. The doctors came in and out, more tests were done, and many nurses came to see me. All I remember was fear... not for myself, but for my son. I felt as if I had let him down. I had read about preemies on the internet while I was in the hospital, and was very aware of the difficult journey he was about to face. </div>At 2:30 my son was born, weighing 1 pound 6 ounces. Now, I had never really understood the life of a preemie. I had never seen a preemie right after birth, except for on TV. You hear those stories and feel bad for those people. You think how hard it must be for them. Until now, I didn't understand. My husband went to see our son after 2 hours. He was stable in the nicu, and was able to see people. I was unable to see him until the next day. It isn't normal not to hold your child when they are born and although all I wanted to do was stay in my hospital bed, I <u>had</u> to go and see him. <br />
When I first saw him, I couldn't believe how small he was. Babies aren't that little... I couldn't believe that a human being could be that small. I was afraid to touch him, and cried when I saw the number of cords and tubes that were in his tiny body. The nurses told us a lot of information about what they were doing, but to be very honest... it is now all a blur. <br />
Since that day we have survivied a lot. Two days after he was born, the nurses woke me up and told me that he wasn't doing well. That I must go to the nicu. I don't know what happened that day, but the doctor says that when my husband and I arrived, all of his vital stats came back up. Since then, we have had our ups and downs. Through infections, ventilators, feedings, and medications... he has come out on top. He is going to survive... and he is going to do great things. I believe he is meant to be here for some reason yet to be seen. No one starts life this way and doesn't make a difference in this world. Don't feel bad for us.. I don't. I was wrong to feel bad for anyone who goes through an experience like this. This has made me a better person. I am stronger and humbled by what both positive thoughts and modern medicine can do. <br />
Alexander grows healthier and stronger each day. It has been 60 days since he was born, and he still wasn't supposed to be in the world for another 41 days... but he is here. And he is wonderful, and he is perfect. I know that our journey is far from over... but our family, with the support and help from our friends can face this journey and everything that it brings us. Alexander taught me that.<br />
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</tbody></table>It is time for some new pictures of me. Some of my mom's co-workers had a nice shower for me today and I may just be the best dressed baby... when I am big enough to fit into all my new clothes! Thank you so much for the great gifts. My new stroller is going to be a great ride! When mom came to visit me, they were about to change my bed, so mom was able to hold me while they did that. The nurses are saying that I am much more curious now and looking around more (That's cause I am older and bigger!) No other changes, my CPAP settings are still good and I am breathing well!!! Thanks again for the beautiful gifts!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"> A great visit while my bed was being cleaned</td></tr>
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<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-88456449080024597372011-06-22T04:16:00.000-07:002011-06-22T04:16:24.556-07:00June 22, 2011Today is moms last day of work, so she will be able to update and visit me more often again! Things are still the same for me in the nicu. I now weigh 958 grams (2 pounds 1.8 ounces). The doctors are continuing to say that the most important thing for me is to grow! My blood work is all ok, my liver has appeared to be fixing itself, and I am still tolerating my feedings well. I will have some pictures to post soon, so you all can see how big I am getting!Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-54307066107201660942011-06-17T03:58:00.000-07:002011-06-17T03:58:26.088-07:00June 17, 2011After coming off the steroids, I struggled a little with the breathing, however, I am doing very well now. The doctors and nurses all tell mom and dad that I look great and things are going great. My oxygen levels have been coming down and I am not needing as much extra pressure from the CPAP to help me breathe. I had about 30 minutes of physical therapy yesterday and that wore me out... so I slept most of the day afterwards. They did increase my feeds to 18 ccs. every three hours. The more I eat, the more I grow!Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4156568167389656481.post-25036885203556970142011-06-15T03:57:00.000-07:002011-06-15T03:57:33.431-07:00June 15, 2011Good Morning Everyone! I know that I am not updating as much lately, however, my mom went back to work this week so it is a little more difficult. In addition, things here are moving pretty slowly. There isn't much news on a daily basis because I have gotten to a point that the doctors say I just need to grow! I am still on the CPAP and doing ok on it. Other than that, I was weighed last night and... I am offically two pounds!!! After losing that weight about a week and half ago, mom was really sad... but I am back up and actually a weigh a little more than I did before the weight loss. Today they are going to change out my bed and dad is going to help by holding me while they do it. What a happy day!Alexander Merlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09663022461877987837noreply@blogger.com0